It utterly baffles me how so many of us stand by and watch a
person get treated unfairly, unethically, and underhandedly, but we don’t speak
up, support, and defend them. But then
when that person quits, walks away, or harms themselves we are surprised. When did the world and the people in it become
so timid to speak up for what is right and support others when they are victimized? The Bible tells us in Psalms 46 that God is
our refuge and strength in times of trouble, but who can WE be a refuge and
strength for?
So often people sit back and say nothing when something
really needs to be said. It could be an
idea, a suggestion, an observation, constructive criticism, but for some reason
they don't want to speak up. Maybe they
are afraid of hurting another person, looking mean or foolish, or opening a can
of worms that will make a mess in everyone's lives. Sometimes it seems like staying silent is the
wiser choice. But there are many reasons why we should always speak up and
voice our feelings and opinions.
You may think that staying silent keeps you from being
involved in any conflict, but it’s the opposite. Silence is as much an active
form of communication as talking. Silence deems approval. If you don’t approve you need to speak up or
it will be assumed that you agree or support the issue.
I believe most people are good hearted and care for others
well-being, but many stay silent because they don't want to create any waves by
offending or carefully criticizing someone. But if a situation is headed down a dangerous
path it’s important to put the needs of the situation above your own
comfortableness.
You can't assume the obvious is apparent. Your experience, knowledge,
and observations have value in a given situation. No one else has your unique
perspective and many people have difficulty seeing the picture beyond their own
wants and desires so hearing another perspective can be helpful.
It’s possible that your insightful observations and
conclusions have appeared in the minds of others. Others may share your
thoughts and opinions, but may also be unwilling to speak up. By speaking your
mind you encourage them to voice their opinions as well. When one person shows
support it can start a trend for others to stand up and support too.
It’s time we speak up for ourselves and for others. If your motive is honest and pure then your
opinion and thoughts matter and should be heard. Proverbs 16:2 “People may be pure in their
own eyes, but the Lord examines their motives.”
I hear about and see children being bullied while others
stand by watching and say nothing. There
are adults who get treated unfairly and with complete disrespect in the
workplace while others do and say nothing.
There are parents who see the signs that their children are struggling,
but don’t say anything out of fear or because it’s easier to just pretend
everything is ok. There are broken
people all around that we could take the time to say a kind word of
encouragement or offer a helping hand but instead we remain busy and silent.
What is it going to take to change this? When will we speak up for what is right?
